10 tips for the first 100 days of a relationship
1.Verbalize and expectations expressed desires without restrictions
This goes especially those who sometimes struggle to take certain measures. Take quick and clear decisions as quickly as possible. This tells your partner that the person owns his life and knows what he wants. Of course, in the discussions that followed, it should in turn carefully consider the wishes of the other, even if their priorities are different.
2.Be attentive and listen carefully
Ask questions if something is of particular interest in the couple. Deepening everything about the habits and characteristics: "Is this theater as a whole and do not like opera or just?". Over time, this gives confidence and helps to know better.
3.Discuss
If an item seems totally inappropriate and premature, do not hesitate to tell. In addition, if the partner carefully avoiding a very specific topic, ie, not
necessarily sinister. One can create a sense of security to be consistent - in other words, one should not destabilize his partner, accounting
too impulsive.
4.Leave a message after the beep
The phone does not ring that is causing many difficulties in the start-up of a couple. Please leave a message. This means that the partner is helpful and attentive.
5.Do not jump to conclusions, if the person did not react as expected
Ask questions easily without aggression. This principle is at the root of a positive and constructive communication between the couple.
6.Liabilities
If the person realizes that she also pressed his partner with his proposals, we must try to find solutions that cater to all tastes. Avoid responding with a "no" and try to propose a common alternative.
7.Let your "ex" out of it
It is not necessary that the couple may think they are constantly evaluated and compared. It is important to have made the pain of his old love story before engaging in a new relationship.
8.Friends and family
You have to let her new lover in time to meet his family and friends. These first meetings are often sources of tension because you never know how it will be. For small doses, especially when both feel ready!
9.The intimacy and distance: Striking the right balance
The intimacy and physical proximity are very important in the beginning of a relationship, but avoid social isolation. Neither should be cut from friends or activities.
10.Wait a while before talking about love
Keep your feet on the floor and let your partner time to see grow their feelings.
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